What Do You Want to Believe About Your Spouse? (Yes, You Get to Choose)

There is a person in my life with some psychological issues. I mean, we all have psychological issues, but for this person, her issues often render her incapacitated, unable to complete even the simplest of tasks. I have spent a good deal of time trying to siphon out what of this behavior is her illness and what is just her personality. If her incapacities are just her personality- that makes me much less enthusiastic about helping her. I feel taken advantage of. I feel like she should do more for herself and rely less on others. But then when I… Read More