5 Ways To Support Your Marriage While Overcoming a Pornography Addiction

By Blake This post is third of a 4-part series:  Overcoming Pornography Addiction When I came across the blog Couples Against Pornography I was entranced by the first post I read and then the next and the next.  I immediately liked their facebook page AND signed up for their newsletter.  I don’t ever do that, but I’m a BIG time believer in their cause.  Their blog is full of hope, support, success stories and good writing. If there is one, underlying message of their blog it is this:  YOU ARE NOT ALONE!  Couples all over the world WANT to overcome… Read More

How Our Marriage Survived My Husband’s Pornography Addiction

By Cherae This post is part two of a 4-part series Overcoming Pornography Addiction Yesterday we heard from Brandon about how he is fighting to overcome his pornography addiction.  Today, we hear from his wife, Cherae.  I think I’ve read just about every post on their blog, And So I Fight, and my goodness you guys- this woman is a FIGHTER!  Read this post.  And this one.  So full of hope!  So full of courage and grit.  I’m inspired. Even if your marriage is not facing issues with pornography, Brandon and Cherae’s words can be for us all.  Every marriage… Read More

How I Overcame My Pornography Addiction

How I Overcame My Pornography Addiction

By Brandon This post is part 1 of our series:  Overcoming Pornography Addiction. Today we’re hearing from Brandon of the blog And So I Fight.  I stumbled upon this blog several months ago and I’m so glad I did.  It’s written by Brandon and Cherae, who are fighting for their marriage and inspiring others along the way as they talk openly about their journey through pornography addiction, infedelity and recovery. I’m so impressed with Brandon and Cherae, their honesty and their determination.  Their blog title is perfect- these two are fighters for sure!  I asked Brandon to tell a little… Read More

Fight the New Drug

Fight the New Drug- Overcoming Pornography Addiction in a marriage

By Celeste You know how sometimes on this blog I do week-long series on things couples struggle with?  Like infertility or faith transitions?  And I get people who have first hand experience with this topic to guest post all week?  You know?  That thing?  I’m doing that thing again this week. This week’s topic is . . . . . . . . pornography addiction. Porn kills love. Yes it does. It says so right on our T-shirts. Photo cred:  Emily Britt This is a topic I feel very strongly about actually.  It completely freaks me out that many (most?) people… Read More

Four Ways to Connect With Your Spouse When You’re Apart

4 Ways to Emotionally Connect With Your Spouse While You're Apart

By Celeste I was going to put something about long-distance relationships in the title, but I don’t think I’m qualified to write about that (military couples you have my GREATEST respect and empathy).  Rich is a grad student, studying a parasite found mostly in South America and Southeast Asia, so he needs to go study it there sometimes.  For the past three years he’s been gone 1-2 months a year and then is averaging about two conferences a year in addition.  (Don’t cry for me Argentina- I’m lucky enough to stay with my parents, who are wonderful human beings, for those month(s)… Read More