The traits we find appealing in a companion when we’re single are often not the traits that make for a successful relationship.  Single friends, go for the nice one.   Recently I got together with a big group of old friends.  Pretty quickly the conversation turned to the love lives of the single ladies in the group for analysis.  (Their lives do tend to have more interesting updates.  I think my contribution involved updating the group on the status of my daughter’s war on vegetables (she’s winning)). I was taken back by two of my friends who were both facing… Read More