Mindy Kaling in her book Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? And Other Concerns has a chapter called “Married People Need to Step it up.” She jokes that her married friends can’t seem to talk about marriage without complaining, which she doesn’t want to hear about.  Rather, she says, “I want to hear that you guys watch every episode of The Bachelorette together in secret shame… I want to see you guys high-five each other like teammates on a recreational softball team…. I want to hear about it because I know it’s possible, and because I want it for myself.”



So, Mindy, here we are, just a couple of pals talkin’ about how great marriage is and how we can make it better.